How to express heartfelt commitment to your mate. More than 1.5 million sold. People express and receive love in different ways. If you express your love in a way that your spouse doesn’t understand, he or she won’t realize you’ve expressed your love at all. The problem is that you’r speaking two different languages. In this new edition, you will find a couple’s guide to help you work as a team. Before you know it, you’ll learn to speak and understand the unique languages of love and effectively express your love as well as feel truly loved in return.